Friday, October 14, 2011

Love Part 9

1Co 13:1 If I speak in the tongues of men and of angels, but have not love, I am a noisy gong or a clanging cymbal.
1Co 13:2 And if I have prophetic powers, and understand all mysteries and all knowledge, and if I have all faith, so as to remove mountains, but have not love, I am nothing.
1 Co 13:3 If I give away all I have, and if I deliver up my body to be burned, but have not love, I gain nothing.
1Co 13:4 Love is patient and kind; love does not envy or boast; it is not arrogant
1Co 13:5 or rude. It does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful; 1Co 13:6 it does not rejoice at wrongdoing, but rejoices with the truth. 1Co 13:7 Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. 1Co 13:8 Love never ends. As for prophecies, they will pass away; as for tongues, they will cease; as for knowledge, it will pass away.
1Co 13:9 For we know in part and we prophesy in part,
1Co 13:10 but when the perfect comes, the partial will pass away.
1Co 13:11 When I was a child, I spoke like a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child. When I became a man, I gave up childish ways.
1Co 13:12 For now we see in a mirror dimly, but then face to face. Now I know in part; then I shall know fully, even as I have been fully known.
1Co 13:13 So now faith, hope, and love abide, these three; but the greatest of these is love.
We began with the first three verses back nine messages ago that showed the importance and necessity of love in the Christian's life. If we don't love than we are not a Christian. After that we covered the characteristics of love. What love is and what it is not. We covered patience. Patience is slow to react and waits steadfastly. Then kindness, it looks for a place to act. It is active. Love does not envy. It is not jealous of others accomplishments. Love does not boast and is not arrogant. We are not smarter than God? Next was love is not rude. We used the word unseemly which seemed to fit the text much better in regards to the Corinthians and Paul's admonishment to them. We need to strive to not be offensive to others even if it seems silly to us. Then we moved on to another tough attribute of love. Love does not insist on its own way. Our love for others should cause us to not insist on our own way but to insist on God's way. Then we went on to... Love is not irritable or easily provoked. And we were all convicted and begged for God’s mercy because we failed so dreadfully in that area. Or maybe that was just me!

We move on to verse 6 this week, which is Love does not rejoice at wrongdoing, but rejoices with the truth. King James version adds a phrase that is not in the ESV version. It adds thinketh no evil to the end of verse 5. I am going to add that to this message because it seems to roll properly into verse 6
1 Co 13:5 Doth not behave itself unseemly, seeketh not her own, is not easily provoked, thinketh no evil;
1Co 13:6 Rejoiceth not in iniquity, but rejoiceth in the truth;

We are going to start with that phrase. Thinketh no evil. I am going to use a very trusted Matthew Henry’s commentary. Although I am going to put in an easier to understand manner with the goal of not changing the meaning of what he has written. As I studied this section of scripture I found that his commentary was as accurate as I could certainly determine, and judging by the way my flesh responded by kicking and screaming it would seem effective for admonishment and encouragement.

Charity (love) thinks no evil…
Love cherishes no malice, nor gives way to revenge. It is never mischievous, nor inclined to revenge. It does not suspect evil of others. True love is not apt to be suspicious. It will hide faults that appear, and draw a veil over them, instead of hunting and raking out those that lie covered and concealed. It will never indulge suspicion without proof, but will rather be inclined to disbelieve evidence against the person it affects. It will hardly give into an ill opinion of another, and it will do it with regret and reluctance only when the evidence cannot be resisted. It will never suspect ill or have a bad opinion upon mere appearances or here-say. Love will put the best face on that it can in circumstances that have no good appearance.
As I was reading this commentary I was reminded of an illustration that J.D. used to give on occasion. I don’t remember the exact way that he put it but I do remember the point so I am going to make it my own.
Before I go on to my example let me just make the disclaimer that none of this is true and is an entirely fictitious story.
If someone came to me and told me that they saw Ed and Marty out behind the bowling alley getting high and selling drugs to kids what would my first reaction be? If I am being honest I think it would be immediate disbelief. “It must be someone who looks just like Ed or Marty but not them. Maybe (God help us!) they have twins.”
But then my source said it was definitely them. They heard them talking and heard them call each other by their names. My reaction would be something like “They must have been drugged against their will and was then threatened harm to their family if they didn’t. Someone must be holding a gun up to their family. Or maybe they were in an accident and have suffered brain damage. Maybe you misunderstood what was going on.”
You see because I love them and I know that it is against their character to do such a thing. I would have to be convinced that they were intentionally doing and selling drugs to kids. But I would have to have hard evidence like a verbal confession.
Love is reluctant to accuse others. Not that it is blind, but that it doesn’t look for unfounded reasons to drag another through the mud.
Too many times the response to the above type scenario is an immediate phone call to 20 of their closest friends to “ask for prayer” for the downfallen men of the church. Sometime prayer chains can be nothing more than gossip chains. Then within 2 hours it is all over face book that Ed and Marty are druggies selling drugs to kids and I knew that Ed guy wasn’t right. I just didn’t trust him and now I know why. Must have been the Holy Spirit warning and protecting me from that terrible man. No wonder he has a camp for kids. He probable gives them all drugs and gets them hooked so they will come to him and buy later. And that poor Marty, Seems like such a nice guy but you know you hang around guys like Ed enough and even the good guys can be deceived. Bad company corrupts good morals you know.
What was not considered in this scenario is love. What may have been happening is that Ed and Marty were out behind the bowling alley taking drugs away from kids so they had the drugs in their hands so it looked like they were selling it and they were actually witnessing to the kids because they both have a burden for the souls of young people even to the point of putting themselves at a physical risk with the drug riddled kids behind the bowling alley.
Again, that did not happen. I made the story up for an example. Let’s get back to Matthew Henry’s commentary as he continues on concerning verse 6.

Love rejoiceth not in iniquity…
Love takes no pleasure in doing injury or hurt to any. It thinks not evil of any, without very clear proof. It wishes ill to none, it will not intentionally hurt or wrong any and certainly would not make it a matter of its delight or rejoice in doing harm or mischief. Nor will it rejoice at the faults and failings of others, and triumph over them, either out of pride or ill-will because it will gratify its spite of another. The sins of others are rather the grief of a charitable (loving) spirit than its sport or delight and gives one no entertainment. It is the very height of malice to take pleasure in the misery of a fellow-creature. And is not falling into sin the greatest calamity that can befall one? How inconsistent is it with Christian charity (love), to rejoice at such fall!
Love rejoiceth in the truth…
Love is glad of the success of the gospel, which is the truth, and rejoices to see men moulded into an evangelical temper by it, and made good. It takes no pleasure in their sins, but is highly delighted to see them do well, to approve themselves men of integrity. It gives it much satisfaction to see truth and justice prevail among men, innocency cleared, and mutual faith and trust established, and to see piety and true religion flourish.
As you can see in this verse there is a negative and a positive. Don’t do this but do this. Don’t rejoice in iniquity but do rejoice in the truth. Initially I would have told you that this is not an issue for me but when I look at the depth of this verse I start to see where I fall short. I do, at times, tend to look and dwell on others faulty aspects than I do their good aspects. I do, on occasion, suspect other people of things that I have no or very little grounds to believe. The truth, I believe, is that if we can find enough faults in others than it gives us, a sort of, “permission” to fail. We hold ourselves up and compare ourselves to others and it makes us feel better if we find them “worse” than we are. We are to hold ourselves up to Christ and compare. Then we can have the right perspective and know that we are filthy rags not worthy to wipe the sweat off Christ’s brow.
It is by His love towards us; Christ takes no pleasure in our sins but wants us to see His truth prevail in us. We are called to be like Christ to the extent we are able.
Matthew Henry made a comment that I have read already but I wanted to draw it out as I close.
“Love will hide faults that appear, and draw a veil over them…”
This is true love; it is what Christ has done for us. He has taken our faults and sins and covered them with His blood and has put His veil over them so that the Father sees only Christ’s righteousness when He looks at us. We are blameless to God and therefore able to share in His inheritance. I am overwhelmed at Christ’s grace and mercy.
I would like to leave you with this to meditate on. Is or has anyone ever been overwhelmed at your grace and mercy toward them? Have you ever shown anyone compassion and love when you and everyone else knew they didn’t deserve it? Is there someone in your life who has been accused of something? Whether they are guilty or not is immaterial. I challenge you to show the love of Christ to that person and reach out and help them. Uplift and encourage them. Strengthen the weak hands, and make firm the feeble knees. This is the time that many are at a place that they will accept Christ as their Savior. Don’t condemn them on what other people say or what they look like. It is Christ’s love and His word through you that will draw others to Him.