Monday, October 15, 2012

Faith Part 3


Last week during Sunday School Steve played the video and spoke about grace and faith. As he was speaking I was reminded of the first message that I ever spoke at Diamond Ridge back 5 or six years ago in which I spoke on faith and what our responsibilities, as Christians, were regarding faith. So I began to really meditate on the subject of faith and realized that it can be difficult to wrap your head around. We see a lot of texts that seem to support that we have to do something to gain or strengthen our faith and we also see a lot of texts that seem to support that any faith we have is given to us by God. This may seem simple to some of you or all of you but this study really helped me to understand an area that we seem to take for granted. We talk about faith all the time, sometimes very flippantly. We sing songs about it, we hear it on TV, But do we really know what it is and what God says about it?  I want to take some time today to look at some of these passages and perhaps you will learn something new today or be reminded of something you already knew or even just to gain a deeper understanding.

Let’s start with some basics.

Dictionary definition…Faith is the persuasion of the mind that a statement is true.

          We have been told that there is a tropical storm out in the Gulf. None of us have seen it other than on TV and yet we all believe that it is true. We have faith in the weatherman’s statements. That is a very generic form of faith but is still an accurate definition.

A biblical definition of faith, although I don’t think that this is exhaustive definition is found in Hebrews chapter 11verse 1.

Heb 11:1 Now faith is the assurance of things hoped for, the conviction of things not seen.

            This, of course, goes into a lot more detail of the faith we are talking about today. If we look at Robertson’s word pictures, which really helps me to understand some of the confusing Greek translations, we will see part of this verse broke down and it will give us a better understanding to the intentions of the writer. I have summarized it a bit. The original gives the Greek phrases that I can’t pronounce. If you would like it all in the original I can give you the web site.

            “The assurance of things hoped for”…This phrase is related to standing or being held firm under something, such as a contract or a promise. This was common in business documents as the guarantee of transactions. In essence “Biblical Faith is the title-deed of things hoped for” It is the contract, the guarantee that what He has said is true. It is God persuading us that His statements are true. We now have the ability to believe.

                    

            That is what the video and Steve spoke about last week. That the faith we have to believe has to come from God. We do not have the ability on our own to believe. By grace we are given the faith to believe, and because we believe we are now saved.

Eph 2:8 For by grace you have been saved through faith. And this is not your own doing; it is the gift of God,

Eph 2:9  not a result of works, so that no one may boast.

Eph 2:10  For we are his workmanship, created in Christ Jesus for good works, which God prepared beforehand, that we should walk in them.

 

            The text is very clear here that grace and faith are not our own doing. Some commentaries vary on this text and say that grace is God’s part and the faith is our part but I disagree. Verse 9 would not be accurate if that were the case. One could boast and say that because he mustered up enough faith that that is how he was saved. Then our salvation would be based on our works of faith. That is still works. I found this statement but am not sure who made it.

 

“God justifies the believing man, not for the worthiness of his belief, but for the worthiness of Him in whom he believes”

 

          Let’s look at some more passages that seem to support that our faith comes from God and not from us.

 

Rom 12:3 For by the grace given to me I say to everyone among you not to think of himself more highly than he ought to think, but to think with sober judgment, each according to the measure of faith that God has assigned.

 

1Co 12:7  To each is given the manifestation of the Spirit for the common good.

1Co 12:8  For to one is given through the Spirit the utterance of wisdom, and to another the utterance of knowledge according to the same Spirit,

1Co 12:9  to another faith by the same Spirit, to another gifts of healing by the one Spirit,

1Co 12:10  to another the working of miracles, to another prophecy, to another the ability to distinguish between spirits, to another various kinds of tongues, to another the interpretation of tongues.

1Co 12:11  All these are empowered by one and the same Spirit, who apportions to each one individually as he wills.

 

Heb 12:2 looking to Jesus, the founder and perfecter of our faith, who for the joy that was set before him endured the cross, despising the shame, and is seated at the right hand of the throne of God.

 

 

            There are other references but these seemed to be the most obvious that our faith does not come from us but from God.

            But remember at the beginning I said there seemed to be a lot of text that say that I have to work for my faith. That faith would seem to be my responsibility not Gods. That that quote that I said earlier may be true and Grace is God’s part and faith is our part. Is there any validity to that scripturally?

            We are going to look at some other scriptures that may seem to be contradictory to everything we just read. Let’s start with…

 

1Th 5:6  So then let us not sleep, as others do, but let us keep awake and be sober.

1Th 5:7  For those who sleep, sleep at night, and those who get drunk, are drunk at night.

1Th 5:8  But since we belong to the day, let us be sober, having put on the breastplate of faith and love, and for a helmet the hope of salvation.

 

It would appear as though we have to “put on the breastplate of faith” as part of our being alert and sober.

 

Luk 22:31  "Simon, Simon, behold, Satan demanded to have you, that he might sift you like wheat,

Luk 22:32 but I have prayed for you that your faith may not fail. And when you have turned again, strengthen your brothers."

If our faith is given to us by God and not “under our control” than how could Peter’s faith fail? Why would Jesus need to pray for Peter’s faith?

 

1Pe 1:3 Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ! According to his great mercy, he has caused us to be born again to a living hope through the resurrection of Jesus Christ from the dead,

1Pe 1:4 to an inheritance that is imperishable, undefiled, and unfading, kept in heaven for you,

1Pe 1:5 who by God's power are being guarded through faith for a salvation ready to be revealed in the last time.

1Pe 1:6 In this you rejoice, though now for a little while, if necessary, you have been grieved by various trials,

1Pe 1:7 so that the tested genuineness of your faith--more precious than gold that perishes though it is tested by fire--may be found to result in praise and glory and honor at the revelation of Jesus Christ.

1Pe 1:8 Though you have not seen him, you love him. Though you do not now see him, you believe in him and rejoice with joy that is inexpressible and filled with glory,

 

Why would we have a test of our faith if we have no control of our faith? Is God being tested when our faith is being tested? I think not.

 

1Co 16:13  Be watchful, stand firm in the faith, act like men, be strong.

1Co 16:14  Let all that you do be done in love.

Again, we are called to stand firm in the faith.

We have seen scripture that seems to prove that God is in control of our faith and we have seen scripture that seems to prove that we faith is works based.

I want us to look at another scripture and this is the scripture that I based my Diamond Ridge message on back 5 or 6 years ago.

 

Mat 17:14  And when they came to the crowd, a man came up to him and, kneeling before him,

Mat 17:15  said, "Lord, have mercy on my son, for he is an epileptic and he suffers terribly. For often he falls into the fire, and often into the water.

Mat 17:16  And I brought him to your disciples, and they could not heal him."

Mat 17:17  And Jesus answered, "O faithless and twisted generation, how long am I to be with you? How long am I to bear with you? Bring him here to me."

Mat 17:18  And Jesus rebuked the demon, and it came out of him, and the boy was healed instantly.

Mat 17:19  Then the disciples came to Jesus privately and said, "Why could we not cast it out?"

Mat 17:20  He said to them, "Because of your little faith. For truly, I say to you, if you have faith like a grain of mustard seed, you will say to this mountain, 'Move from here to there,' and it will move, and nothing will be impossible for you."

Mat 17:21  [But this kind never comes out except by prayer and fasting.]

 

 

Luk 17:5  The apostles said to the Lord, "Increase our faith!"

Luk 17:6  And the Lord said, "If you had faith like a grain of mustard seed, you could say to this mulberry tree, 'Be uprooted and planted in the sea,' and it would obey you.

 

I have heard these texts preached on in the past and it is almost always explained as faith the size of a mustard seed. But the text doesn’t say it that way, nor does any translation that I could find. All translations that I researched were faith like or as a mustard seed. There is a huge difference in the size of a mustard seed and like a mustard seed. Let me try to give you the picture of what God has given me to help me understand faith and what is God’s responsibility and what is my responsibility.

          The mustard seed is one of the tiniest seeds that there are and yet it becomes one of the largest plants in the garden rivaling that of a small tree. The mustard seed does not choose where it will be planted.

          Much like we don’t choose to have faith. God decides where He will plant the seeds and where He will not. I don’t understand how He makes those decisions and question them sometimes. But He does plant the seed in those that He calls chosen.

 

Eph 1:3  Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, who has blessed us in Christ with every spiritual blessing in the heavenly places,

Eph 1:4  even as he chose us in him before the foundation of the world, that we should be holy and blameless before him. In love

Eph 1:5  he predestined us for adoption as sons through Jesus Christ, according to the purpose of his will,

Eph 1:6  to the praise of his glorious grace, with which he has blessed us in the Beloved.

Eph 1:7  In him we have redemption through his blood, the forgiveness of our trespasses, according to the riches of his grace,

Eph 1:8  which he lavished upon us, in all wisdom and insight

Eph 1:9  making known to us the mystery of his will, according to his purpose, which he set forth in Christ

Eph 1:10  as a plan for the fullness of time, to unite all things in him, things in heaven and things on earth.

Eph 1:11  In him we have obtained an inheritance, having been predestined according to the purpose of him who works all things according to the counsel of his will,

Eph 1:12  so that we who were the first to hope in Christ might be to the praise of his glory.

Eph 1:13  In him you also, when you heard the word of truth, the gospel of your salvation, and believed in him, were sealed with the promised Holy Spirit,

Eph 1:14  who is the guarantee of our inheritance until we acquire possession of it, to the praise of his glory.

 

I would like you to consider how much faith does a seed have? When a seed is planted it knows nothing else of what to do than to grow. It does not have its own agenda. We planted tomato seeds in our back yard and not one of them decided it didn’t want to be a tomato and grew up as a watermelon. It just began to grow into what it was intended to be. If we allowed the seed of faith that has been placed in us to grow as God intended it to do then it would become one of the largest plants in our garden. If we had faith LIKE a mustard seed we would not question and complain about the circumstances that God has placed us in but we would glorify Him in those circumstances.

          But if God chose to place a seed of faith in us then there is nothing that we can do to dig that seed up. If it has been planted by God than it is immovable, therefore verifying the first part of this message which was that God gives us the faith that we have and it is not from us. Question answered we can all go now. Not quite.

 

 

1Ti 1:18  This charge I entrust to you, Timothy, my child, in accordance with the prophecies previously made about you, that by them you may wage the good warfare,

1Ti 1:19  holding faith and a good conscience. By rejecting this, some have made shipwreck of their faith,

 

Apparently we are able to make a shipwreck of our faith. I at times in my life have.

          Let’s go back to our mustard seed…

                   That seed of faith that God has placed in us we have deemed immovable but we can see here that we can make a shipwreck out of it. As our tomatoes started to grow they were attacked by some leaf eating bug that all but destroyed our tomatoes. So we got some bug killer dust and put that on it and they were okay for a while but then they started to wilt and die and we found out from Ed that we needed to fertilize them and we did and they started to look real good and even got a little terrible looking mutated tomato out of it. But then it just seemed to stop growing and I realized that the bushes were way too big for the pot that I had them in so we transplanted them into a bigger pot and they started growing and producing again.

          Well there is our faith. No matter what I did it was still a tomato plant, dead or alive it was still a tomato and nothing would change that. But it took grooming and care before it became anything of any use.

          This is where the other part of our faith coming from us comes from. God gives us the faith but we are responsible to nurture and grow that faith to become useful to Him. We are to water our seed with the Word of God. We are to protect our faith with fellowship. We are to exercise our faith with prayer.

Rom 10:17 So faith comes from hearing, and hearing through the word of Christ.

 

Eph 6:16  In all circumstances take up the shield of faith, with which you can extinguish all the flaming darts of the evil one;

Rom 4:20 No distrust made him waver concerning the promise of God, but he grew strong in his faith as he gave glory to God,

 

 

Heb 11:6 And without faith it is impossible to please him, for whoever would draw near to God must believe that he exists and that he rewards those who seek him.

1Jn 5:4 For everyone who has been born of God overcomes the world. And this is the victory that has overcome the world—our faith.

It is our faith given to us by God ( our salvation ) Our hope of Glory

 

 

2Pe 1:3 His divine power has granted to us all things that pertain to life and godliness, through the knowledge of him who called us to his own glory and excellence,

2Pe 1:4 by which he has granted to us his precious and very great promises, so that through them you may become partakers of the divine nature, having escaped from the corruption that is in the world because of sinful desire.

1Pe 1:9 obtaining the outcome of your faith, the salvation of your souls.

 

 

JFB…

By faith alone we are sure of eternal things that they ARE: but by hope we are confident that WE SHALL HAVE them. All hope presupposes faith

 

Faith For The Journey


Theme:
Trusting God, Abram's journey of faith. 2nd Sunday in Lent, Year A.
Object:
A blindfold
Scripture:
The LORD had said to Abram, "Leave your country, your people and your father's household and go to the land I will show you." Genesis 12:1 (NIV)
When we do something for the very first time it can be a little bit scary. Do you remember your very first day at school? Your mother probably went in with you to help you find your room and meet your teacher. When you got on a bicycle for the first time, someone probably walked along beside you and helped hold you up at the very beginning. That gave you confidence and soon you were riding on your own. When you went swimming for the first time, you didn't just go out and jump in the pool, did you? No, there was someone with you to hold you up until you you could swim on your own. It really helps if we have someone we trust to be with us when we are about to do something we have never done before.
Today, I brought a blindfold. What if I were to ask one of you to put on this blindfold and find your way to the back of the room and bring a hymnal back to me? How do you think you might feel? Would you be worried that you might bump into something and hurt yourself? Would you be afraid that others might laugh at you when you went the wrong direction? What if I said that I would go with you and hold your hand? You trust me, don't you? I will be with you every step. How does that make you feel? Who would like to try it? (Choose a child.) OK, Johnny, let's go.
What Johnny did this morning is similar to what Abram and Sarah experienced in today's Bible lesson. God told Abram to leave everything behind and to move to a new country. He didn't even tell him where this country was. He just said, "Go to the land that I will show you." They didn't know where they were going or what they would find when they got there. It was like they were wearing a blindfold, but they trusted God -- just like Johnny trusted me -- and like we trust our parents to help us do new things. So, even though they were a bit scared, they left everything and set out on the journey to the place that God showed them. It took many years, but God was with them and he led them to their new home.
How about you, do you ever take a journey into the unknown? Sure you do. Just about every day we face things which we have never done before. They may be a bit scary, but we know that God is with us, just as he was with Abram and Sarah. We just have to trust him to lead the way.
Father, sometimes we are afraid to go where we have not gone before. Help us to remember that you are with us wherever we go. Amen.

 

Faith Part 2


Now, though I have all this faith so as to remove mountains, yet if I have not the faith which worketh by love, I am nothing. To remove mountains was a proverbial phrase among the Jews, and is still retained in their writings, to express a thing which is very difficult, and to appearance impossible. Mat_21:21; Luk_17:6.

 

 

Luk 17:5  The apostles said to the Lord, "Increase our faith!"

Luk 22:32  but I have prayed for you that your faith may not fail. And when you have turned again, strengthen your brothers."

Rom 4:20  No distrust made him waver concerning the promise of God, but he grew strong in his faith as he gave glory to God,

Rom 10:17  So faith comes from hearing, and hearing through the word of Christ.

Rom 12:3  For by the grace given to me I say to everyone among you not to think of himself more highly than he ought to think, but to think with sober judgment, each according to the measure of faith that God has assigned.

 

Rom 16:26  but has now been disclosed and through the prophetic writings has been made known to all nations, according to the command of the eternal God, to bring about the obedience of faith --

1Co 12:9  to another faith by the same Spirit, to another gifts of healing by the one Spirit,

1Co 16:13  Be watchful, stand firm in the faith, act like men, be strong.

Eph 2:8  For by grace you have been saved through faith. And this is not your own doing; it is the gift of God,

Eph 6:16  In all circumstances take up the shield of faith, with which you can extinguish all the flaming darts of the evil one;

Php 3:9  and be found in him, not having a righteousness of my own that comes from the law, but that which comes through faith in Christ, the righteousness from God that depends on faith--

1Th 3:10  as we pray most earnestly night and day that we may see you face to face and supply what is lacking in your faith?

1Th 5:8  But since we belong to the day, let us be sober, having put on the breastplate of faith and love, and for a helmet the hope of salvation.

2Th 1:11  To this end we always pray for you, that our God may make you worthy of his calling and may fulfill every resolve for good and every work of faith by his power,

1Ti 1:19  holding faith and a good conscience. By rejecting this, some have made shipwreck of their faith,

1Ti 6:11  But as for you, O man of God, flee these things. Pursue righteousness, godliness, faith, love, steadfastness, gentleness.

Heb 11:1  Now faith is the assurance of things hoped for, the conviction of things not seen.

Heb 11:6  And without faith it is impossible to please him, for whoever would draw near to God must believe that he exists and that he rewards those who seek him.

Heb 12:2  looking to Jesus, the founder and perfecter of our faith, who for the joy that was set before him endured the cross, despising the shame, and is seated at the right hand of the throne of God.

1Jn 5:4  For everyone who has been born of God overcomes the world. And this is the victory that has overcome the world—our faith.

Mat 13:31  He put another parable before them, saying, "The kingdom of heaven is like a grain of mustard seed that a man took and sowed in his field.

Mat 13:32  It is the smallest of all seeds, but when it has grown it is larger than all the garden plants and becomes a tree, so that the birds of the air come and make nests in its branches."

Eph 2:8  For by grace you have been saved through faith. And this is not your own doing; it is the gift of God,

Eph 2:9  not a result of works, so that no one may boast.

Eph 2:10  For we are his workmanship, created in Christ Jesus for good works, which God prepared beforehand, that we should walk in them.

Mar 9:23  And Jesus said to him, "'If you can'! All things are possible for one who believes."

Mar 9:24  Immediately the father of the child cried out and said, "I believe; help my unbelief!"

Rom 12:3  For by the grace given to me I say to everyone among you not to think of himself more highly than he ought to think, but to think with sober judgment, each according to the measure of faith that God has assigned.

Gal 5:22  But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness,

Gal 5:23  gentleness, self-control; against such things there is no law.

2Pe 1:3  His divine power has granted to us all things that pertain to life and godliness, through the knowledge of him who called us to his own glory and excellence,

2Pe 1:4  by which he has granted to us his precious and very great promises, so that through them you may become partakers of the divine nature, having escaped from the corruption that is in the world because of sinful desire.

1Pe 1:3  Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ! According to his great mercy, he has caused us to be born again to a living hope through the resurrection of Jesus Christ from the dead,

1Pe 1:4  to an inheritance that is imperishable, undefiled, and unfading, kept in heaven for you,

1Pe 1:5  who by God's power are being guarded through faith for a salvation ready to be revealed in the last time.

1Pe 1:6  In this you rejoice, though now for a little while, if necessary, you have been grieved by various trials,

1Pe 1:7  so that the tested genuineness of your faith--more precious than gold that perishes though it is tested by fire--may be found to result in praise and glory and honor at the revelation of Jesus Christ.

1Pe 1:8  Though you have not seen him, you love him. Though you do not now see him, you believe in him and rejoice with joy that is inexpressible and filled with glory,

1Pe 1:9  obtaining the outcome of your faith, the salvation of your souls.

 

 

Discouragement


                             We finished our series on love last time and it is time to move on, although we never really move on from loving God and each other. I had a bit of a struggle with what I should speak on today and as usual thought it best to preach on what was happening in my life. I teach as I am being taught. If I am being honest with you I have felt very discouraged and defeated lately. It would seem as though there are a lot of areas in my life and in the life of those that I love that have been disappointing, challenging and downright depressing lately. I have watched people that I love make decisions that I know will harm them and they are doing it willingly when they know better. I have struggled in my own faith in God in financial and personal areas of my life. I have humored moments of apathy that I just would like to stop trying so hard and give up because it all seems in vain. Discouragement is universal. No one is immune. If there is anyone here that has never been discouraged than please feel free to correct me. Everyone has been discouraged at one time or another. And just because you were once does not mean that you are immune to it ever happening again. It is like a disease that wears you down and weakens you. It is highly contagious and can be spread by mere casual contact. There are many causes for discouragement and there are many levels of discouragement. Let me encourage you before we move on that there is also a treatment for discouragement.

          First of all, I would like us to look at examples in the bible of people who were discouraged or who at least had a right to be discouraged. This helped me to keep the proper perspective of my issues.

          Of course the obvious one with the right to be discouraged would be Job.

          Job 1:3  He possessed 7,000 sheep, 3,000 camels, 500 yoke of oxen, and 500 female donkeys, and very many servants, so that this man was the greatest of all the people of the east

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          Job 3:11  "Why did I not die at birth, come out from the womb and expire?

     Job 3:20  "Why is light given to him who is in misery, and life to the bitter in soul,

Job 3:21  who long for death, but it comes not, and dig for it more than for hidden treasures,

Job 3:22  who rejoice exceedingly and are glad when they find the grave?

Job 3:23  Why is light given to a man whose way is hidden, whom God has hedged in?

Job 3:24  For my sighing comes instead of my bread, and my groanings are poured out like water.

Job 3:25  For the thing that I fear comes upon me, and what I dread befalls me.

Job 3:26  I am not at ease, nor am I quiet; I have no rest, but trouble comes."

 

          Joseph was sold as a slave by his brothers and imprisoned for something he did not do. He had a right to be discouraged.       

 

          David is another good example of someone who had a right to be discouraged as he fled for his life …

 

Psa 142:1  A Maskil of David, when he was in the cave. A Prayer. With my voice I cry out to the LORD; with my voice I plead for mercy to the LORD.

Psa 142:2  I pour out my complaint before him; I tell my trouble before him.

Psa 142:3  When my spirit faints within me, you know my way! In the path where I walk they have hidden a trap for me.

Psa 142:4  Look to the right and see: there is none who takes notice of me; no refuge remains to me; no one cares for my soul.

Psa 142:5  I cry to you, O LORD; I say, "You are my refuge, my portion in the land of the living."

Psa 142:6  Attend to my cry, for I am brought very low! Deliver me from my persecutors, for they are too strong for me!

Psa 142:7  Bring me out of prison, that I may give thanks to your name! The righteous will surround me, for you will deal bountifully with me.

 

          Paul is another example as we look at his life…

                   I am sure that there were times that Paul became discouraged. His letters to the Corinthians certainly, by his language, sound that he was discouraged with the Corinthians. He even points out that they know better. He spent a large amount of time in prisons. He had a right to be discouraged.

 

                   There are many more examples, but I just wanted to give you a few so we could keep ourselves in a proper perspective. Our lives, just by the fact we are all here in this room today, are not as bad as those we just read about.

          I would like to take just a minute and look at was caused discouragement in our lives and the lives of the people we just looked at. It would be fair to say that loss of all your wealth would be cause for discouragement, loss of loved ones, ridicule from others, pain and suffering, unjust treatment, false accusations, the threat of losing one’s life, loved ones disregarding the council of God. These are just a few from the texts we read earlier. There is no lack of reasons to be discouraged in this world. But here is where I am going to throw in a little twist. Being discouraged can be a good thing. It causes us to call out to God as our only cure. Many people are born again because they have come to a point in their life so low that they have lost all hope and are ready to give up. It is also good for believers to be reminded that God is in control. My discouragement has caused me to have a closer relationship with God because I have to rely on Him more. Discouragement comes from my perspective of what “things” are supposed to look like verses what God’s perspective of “things” is. That is why when we feel discouraged it is so imperative that we seek and trust Him even more diligently. The very thing that has you discouraged is part of His plan for your life.

 

2Co 1:3  Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of mercies and God of all comfort,

2Co 1:4  who comforts us in all our affliction, so that we may be able to comfort those who are in any affliction, with the comfort with which we ourselves are comforted by God.

2Co 1:5  For as we share abundantly in Christ's sufferings, so through Christ we share abundantly in comfort too.

2Co 1:6  If we are afflicted, it is for your comfort and salvation; and if we are comforted, it is for your comfort, which you experience when you patiently endure the same sufferings that we suffer.

2Co 4:16  So we do not lose heart. Though our outer self is wasting away, our inner self is being renewed day by day.

2Co 4:17  For this light momentary affliction is preparing for us an eternal weight of glory beyond all comparison,

2Co 4:18  as we look not to the things that are seen but to the things that are unseen. For the things that are seen are transient, but the things that are unseen are eternal.

 

          The sad part and the tragedy in this is so many of us think, by our actions, that we know better than God, or don’t trust God enough to allow Him to use us in those times. We have a tendency, as I spoke of earlier, to “zone out” and give up. But we need God the most in those times and yet we shut Him out of our lives and wallow in self-pity because we have a right to be discouraged. The other tendency is that we look elsewhere for our answers. We self-medicate with alcohol or drugs, even prescription drugs so that we don’t have to deal with the situation. How one handles discouragement is a pivotal point in our life and relationship with God. I want to read you this story I found on the internet. I thought it was neat and made my point very well.    

 

The Rock
A man was sleeping at night in his cabin when suddenly his room filled with light and the Savior appeared. The Lord told the man He had work for him to do, and showed him a large rock in front of his cabin. The Lord explained that the man was to push against the rock with all his might.
This the man did, day after day. For many years he toiled from sun up to sundown, his shoulders set squarely against the cold, massive surface of the unmoving rock, pushing with all his might. Each night the man returned to his cabin sore, and worn out, feeling that his whole day had been spent in vain.
Seeing that the man was showing signs of discouragement, the Adversary decided to enter the picture by placing thoughts into the man’s weary mind. "You have been pushing against that rock for a long time, and it hasn’t budged. Why kill yourself over this? You are never going to move it."
This gave the man the impression that the task was impossible and that he was a failure. These thoughts discouraged and disheartened the man. "Why kill myself over this?" he thought. "I’ll just put in my time, giving just the minimum effort and that will be good enough."
And that is what he planned to do until one day he decided to make it a matter of prayer and take his troubled thoughts to the Lord. "Lord" he said, "I have labored long and hard in your service, putting all my strength to do that which you have asked. Yet, after all this time, I have
not even budged that rock by half a millimeter. What is wrong? Why am I failing?"
The Lord responded compassionately, "My friend, when I asked you to serve me and you accepted, I told you that your task was to push against the rock with all your strength, which you have done. Never once did I mention to you that I expected you to move it. Your task was to push. And now you come to me, with your strength spent, thinking that you have failed. But, is that really so? Look at yourself."
"Your arms are strong and muscled, your back sinewy and brown, your hands are callused from constant pressure, and your legs have become massive and hard. Through opposition you have grown much and your abilities now surpass that which you used to have. Yet you haven’t moved the rock. But your calling was to be obedient and to push and to exercise your faith and trust in my wisdom. This you have done. I, my friend will now move the rock."

 

          As I close, I wanted to share with you a little more of my situation. I mentioned earlier that there are a lot of areas in my life and in the life of those that I love that have been disappointing, challenging and downright depressing lately. I have watched people that I love make decisions that I know will harm them and they are doing it willingly when they know better. I have struggled in my own faith in God in financial and personal areas of my life. The truth is that God is in control of all of those things. And I was deceived into believing that I was in some kind of control of all that. The truth that God revealed to me… My kids, granddaughter and wife are all healthy and alive and under God’s care; we all have food in our stomachs, roofs over our heads, and are better off financially than I ever have been in my life. All by God’s grace and love. Even if we didn’t have all that, God is still in control. I have a board in my office that says… You can’t control today’s outcome but you can control your effort. The outcome is for God to decide.

Last thing… I Promise…

                   A good friend gave me this advice this week. By the way when you are discouraged don’t become a recluse. You need fellowship!! He said…

 God is in charge. When we don't know what else to do, it is time to just set your face like flint and follow Jesus. So many things that happen in our circles are not even about us, but about those around us but we get caught up in the drama because we love them or need them - so just do your job - steer the ship and this time of storm will pass soon and we will get some more smooth sailing and be glad we came on the cruise.

 

But Doesn't God Want Me To Be Happy?


                       I have heard similar questions to this and have even pondered a certain version of this in my own life. Although mine was pointed in a slightly different direction, when I was a very young Christian or maybe not even a Christian yet, my question was more like…”Why doesn’t God want me to be happy?” Frankly those were about the only times that I really thought about God at all. It was a challenging time in my life, mostly due to my own cause. My children seemed out of control and unmanageable, my wife would hardly ever agree with any of my decisions, we were spiraling into a pit of debt financially and I was a basket case and just wanted to give up. The truth in all that was that my kids just needed a godly father, my wife needed a godly husband that she could agree with, I needed to stop blowing my money on foolish spending and I needed to spend more time working on my relationship with Christ. But that is not my point for today. My point that I am trying to make is that I was causing this big chaos in my life in all these areas and then blaming God for not making me happy.

          There are literally hundreds of references in the Bible about joy and I have talked about some of them before in the past. But this question of does God want me to be happy is important. Why, because if I believe that God wants me to be happy and I am not happy then somehow God has failed, or God is not real, or maybe God is punishing me or God doesn’t love me. I could go on and on of how one simple question improperly answered can have a devastating effect on your perception of who God is and what God’s purpose is.

          If I went around the room and asked each one of you what would make you happy, most every one of you would answer the question differently. Maybe someone would say if God would take away the pain in my leg, someone might say they would be happy if their kids came to visit, someone might be happy if the nurse treated them better or if the meals were better. Tony would probably be happy if the Bucs won their game today, or if they won the super bowl that would make Tony really happy. Well, if God wants Tony to be happy then the Bucs should win the super bowl. But what if my favorite team was the opposing team and it would make me happy if they won? If God wants me to be happy then my team should win the super bowl. Does it become a battle between Tony and I of who is more spiritual or who has more faith or more favor from God. Of course not.

 

          But there are so many verses that talk about joy there must be something to a Christian being joyful. I have seen verses on refrigerators reminding people to be joyful. Verses like…

 

Psa 16:11  You make known to me the path of life; in your presence there is fullness of joy; at your right hand are pleasures forevermore.

 

This is repeated by Peter in Acts…

 

Act 2:25  For David says concerning him, "'I saw the Lord always before me, for he is at my right hand that I may not be shaken;

Act 2:26  therefore my heart was glad, and my tongue rejoiced; my flesh also will dwell in hope.

Act 2:27  For you will not abandon my soul to Hades, or let your Holy One see corruption.

Act 2:28  You have made known to me the paths of life; you will make me full of gladness with your presence.'

 

          As I look in my own life and in the lives of the people that I have been blessed to minister to, I find that a large part of our problems are because we are deceived. We don’t know the truth and we believe lies. Many of us are deceived into believing that true joy is my football team winning the super bowl. You can be happy about your football team winning the super bowl but if you get depressed and walk around for the next two weeks with your head hung low acting like Eeyore then you are headed for destruction. There are people who commit suicide because a team lost a game. I am not just picking on sports. Some people give up because of their jobs or because they owe too much money or their kids have done something bad. Those people were deceived by the lie that their joy comes from those circumstances. We have become deceived to think that happiness and joy are the same thing. It is possible to have both but joy is not based on worldly circumstances it is based on my position in Christ. Any other way is a self-centered gospel.

          Look at that verse in Psalm 16 again. In His presence is where the joy is.

Let’s back up and look at a little more of that Psalm.

 

 

 

 

 

 

Psa 16:5  The LORD is my chosen portion and my cup; you hold my lot.

Psa 16:6  The lines have fallen for me in pleasant places; indeed, I have a beautiful inheritance.

Psa 16:7  I bless the LORD who gives me counsel; in the night also my heart instructs me.

Psa 16:8  I have set the LORD always before me; because he is at my right hand, I shall not be shaken.

Psa 16:9  Therefore my heart is glad, and my whole being rejoices; my flesh also dwells secure.

Psa 16:10  For you will not abandon my soul to Sheol, or let your holy one see corruption.

Psa 16:11  You make known to me the path of life; in your presence there is fullness of joy; at your right hand are pleasures forevermore.

 

          David was not dwelling on his circumstances; He was dwelling on the Lord. In verse 8 it says he has set the Lord before him and that is why his heart is glad. All of the scriptures that I found regarding joy were all contingent on our position in the Lord.

 

 1Ch 16:27  Splendor and majesty are before him; strength and joy are in his place.

 

 

                      I want to take a few more minutes with David…

 

Psa 43:1  Vindicate me, O God, and defend my cause against an ungodly people, from the deceitful and unjust man deliver me!

Psa 43:2  For you are the God in whom I take refuge; why have you rejected me? Why do I go about mourning because of the oppression of the enemy?

Psa 43:3  Send out your light and your truth; let them lead me; let them bring me to your holy hill and to your dwelling!

Psa 43:4  Then I will go to the altar of God, to God my exceeding joy, and I will praise you with the lyre, O God, my God.

Psa 43:5  Why are you cast down, O my soul, and why are you in turmoil within me? Hope in God; for I shall again praise him, my salvation and my God.

 

                   David is being chased and people are wanting to kill him and yes it is difficult and it is okay to say Lord, I don’t understand why this is happening. But don’t go into mourning pray that you would be enlightened by the truth. Which is, as it says in verse 4, God is my exceeding joy. Regardless of my circumstances God is my joy and he is constant. Therefore my joy does not change even though my circumstances do. Joy is not contingent on your feelings. You can be sad and joyful at the same time.

          Consider that joy is one of the fruits of the spirit and let’s look at the others.

 

Gal 5:22  But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness,

Gal 5:23  gentleness, self-control; against such things there is no law.

 

          The fruits of the spirit are gifts from God to sanctify us. How and why does joy make it into this list if it is something that depends on my circumstances? If you are in Christ then the Holy Spirit dwells in you and gives you these gifts or abilities. You now have a choice of believing that or not. The Holy Spirit teaches us to love the unlovable, have joy in bad circumstances, to have peace in times of turmoil, patience in times of trouble, kindness to those who are mean, goodness to those who are bad, faithfulness to the unfaithful, gentleness to the rough, and self-control in times of testing.

          All of this is only if you are in Christ.

 

Joh 15:1  "I am the true vine, and my Father is the vinedresser.

Joh 15:2  Every branch in me that does not bear fruit he takes away, and every branch that does bear fruit he prunes, that it may bear more fruit.

Joh 15:3  Already you are clean because of the word that I have spoken to you.

Joh 15:4  Abide in me, and I in you. As the branch cannot bear fruit by itself, unless it abides in the vine, neither can you, unless you abide in me.

Joh 15:5  I am the vine; you are the branches. Whoever abides in me and I in him, he it is that bears much fruit, for apart from me you can do nothing.

Joh 15:6  If anyone does not abide in me he is thrown away like a branch and withers; and the branches are gathered, thrown into the fire, and burned.

Joh 15:7  If you abide in me, and my words abide in you, ask whatever you wish, and it will be done for you.

Joh 15:8  By this my Father is glorified, that you bear much fruit and so prove to be my disciples.

Joh 15:9  As the Father has loved me, so have I loved you. Abide in my love.

Joh 15:10  If you keep my commandments, you will abide in my love, just as I have kept my Father's commandments and abide in his love.

Joh 15:11  These things I have spoken to you, that my joy may be in you, and that your joy may be full.

 

     The truth of the question…

          “Doesn’t God want me to be happy?

     Is yes he does. God does want you to be happy, content and satisfied in Christ. In who you are in Christ and in your promised inheritance.

 

As we are sanctified we mature and what makes us happy will begin to change. The things that made me happy ten years ago don’t necessarily make me happy today. I needed to reform my way of thinking, start believing the truth and now I can have joy in harder circumstances. Have I made it to a point where nothing will ever affect my joy? No. But I am much closer and the roller coaster is much safer and a lot less scary.

If we change what makes us happy to line up with the word of God then we can have joy and happiness and isn’t that what we would all want, if we are being truthful.